Testimonials and Letters

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Hi, I think if you came here in the first place - you are here for a reason - and that is to find yourself again - to find the answer and try to rebuild your life after a horrible break up! If you are here for these very reasons - you have definitely come to the right place! You have come to meet the most encouraging and compassionate people who will give you their honest opinions... I felt low, I felt saddened and I felt that my life would never be positive and happy again! I felt that I didn't know how to 'start'... I just didn't have the confidence or the knowledge. I bought the workbook and I couldn't wait for it to arrive! I thoroughly enjoyed the exercises in the book and I liked how it was written - an easy to read book! As you are reading it - you find yourself shouting out "That's how I feel right now", or "That's what I want to do" etc... It's absolutely spot on! You can feel it was written from someone who has gone through the pain before and it has sound advice. Above all I found the exercises fun and inspiring! It made me find out a lot about the break up. It made me realise that maybe things were not so great after all - and I really believe that without this book - I just might not have realised that. Now that I realise that I deserve better and that there are great things out there for me - I am confident and I am stronger... I smile a lot now and I mean it This book is inexpensive for the job it does! Well worth a purchase or a recommendation to a friend who may need it or a loved one who is hurting... Help yourself smile again and find the strength With love,
Lost x

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Like the song goes, breaking up IS hard to do. But hard is really an understatement, it's devastating. I was confused, angry, sad & isolated. I found the BreakUp Workbook at brokenheartedgirl.com and found immediate relief. I was able to uncover, discover and discard the resentment surrounding my break-up. It was a launching pad to recovery. The workbook is a journey in clarity and healing. Thank you.
-Carrie

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This workbook is SO helpful to anyone going through a breakup...young, old, male or female. I have had breakups in the past, but never as devastating as the recent breakup. I honestly do not think I would be this far in my recovery if it had not been for the workbook. I would recommend this workbook without hesitation! It is by far the best "therapy" I have found!!

- JB

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This workbook forces you to delve deep into all facets of your last relationship to get to the true root of the problem. It not only helps you to grieve, heal and move on from the broken relationship, it helps you by pointing out the type of guys you date and how to break that pattern. I would recommend this to anyone going through a break up, its interactive, fun, heartwarming, funny, serious and soul searching.
-Christy

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Because of the Brokenheartedgirl.com workbook and the advice and support from members who have become my friends here at the forum, I have been able to heal my broken heart and move on...and I am smiling again.

sunshine

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This book is fantastic! MJ, you have done a remarkable job! I am only half way through it, but I have realized how badly I was treated by him now by answering the questions. I never saw the red flags cause I was so much in love. Now that he is out of my life and working this book it paints a whole different picture of the guy. Dont hesitate! Do it as soon as possible!

-Trish

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just got the workbook last night..And already I love how it reads.. Obviously, its written for women, so its pretty funny to be filling in spaces and answers that have to do with "my man", LOL!! But other than those references, the exercises can be easily applied to both ex girlfriends or ex boyfriends no matter the situation...even though my relationship ended a couple of months back, I can see the workbook will still be very helpful, and of course posting at this website has been a Godsend. Exercise one was difficult for me, I must admit..but I know it was neccesary.. thanks to the authors, its been well worth the purchase already, and I just started.

David

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Dear MJ -
You are very welcome to post any parts of my letter to you on any forum and you are welcome to use my name. I will gladly also post a thank you on the forum. I am willing to shout to the roof tops on the success of this workbook and what it has done for me. I am very happy that my mom surfed the net and found your site for me. If it hadn't been for her finding you for me and your words of wisdom - I would never be at the point that I'm at now.... But I've also told her that the exercises from the workbook, really opened my eyes. The one that stands out the most is the one where you have to find the common thread. And there is always a common thread - that I have learned. Now I'm spinning a new thread and I'm going to enjoy every minute of it. Thank you so much. I'll let you know how things go on this date and any other because now I have the confidence to say up front what I will accept and what I wont.
Your friend - Patti -

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I know that it will take me some time to get over him but I'm on my way.I love your website, I consider myself fortunate to have found it, especially during this time. You are just what I needed at this time.
Again Thank you... -P.C.

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Hello, MJ.
I really appreciated the workbook in conjuction with the messageboard. It is always helpful to hear from others and sometimes to just be able to vent. Also, with all the driving people do you may want to include my thought about using a digital voice recorder when you aren't able to stop and write things down, or to stop you from calling. Some of the more "common sense" things we also useful to have right in front of you. Such as don't listen to depressing music, email or call your support network, and don't contact him. The most important piece of information I feel, is that you have to decide to get over him. You cannot progress without that. You need to picture yourself 3-6 months down the road without him and in a happy place.
Thank you for getting it all in one place for all of us.
A. W.

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Hello, I believe your workbook helped me tremendously. No, not every step is right for everyone because our situations are different, but I think most steps do cover the majority of women. I don't have any tips for improvement. Thank you for asking the women that used the workbook for their opinions
- kjd

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Hello MJ,
I guess the main thing that helped me is when I was hurting so bad one day, got on my computer and just put "broken hearted" in the search engine, and then found your website, started reading a lot of different women's posting's, and then at that time realized that I was not alone at all. I read all kinds of stories by women of all different ages. That was a HUGE surprise to me. I am 30 years old and for some odd reason was thinking that I was probably the oldest woman on earth that has for one, been dumped after thinking that I was with the man that I was going to spend the rest of my entire life with, and two, the only one who had lost my job over it and who's world had just fell apart completely by having to deal with the major pain and heartache & stress that I was under. If it had not been for your website and me finding it to post part of my story/heartache on there, I don't know if I could have made it without the other women on there that wrote to me and wanted to talk to me about what they were feeling and and letting it out to someone who truly understood and would NOT judge them for being so naive in the situations that they (we) had basically led ourselves into. They felt the same way I did about discussing my issues with my closest friends, that was not a good thing to do at times and being able to talk to someone who is or has been hurt, helped me on finding or figuring out just what it is that I should do from that point on about my situation! Thanks to you MJ for having been through what you have been though so that you were understanding about the needs of other women and made myself and the others see the light at the end of the tunnel
~God Bless you!!
Sincerely,
C.M.C.

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That workbook has done more help than any $100.00+ per hour psychologist ever could!!! Plus I can use it when "I" am ready, not by someone else's time table. It really is a great book!!! This forum is so helpful too because when I need to scream inside; I can come here.
-justblue