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24.07.2010 (663 Days Ago)
About a month ago ive entered my third relationship at the beginning it was great we were always close and talked like there was no tomorrow, but lately things have suddenly changed so i think he says nothing has changed he says he loves me and i shouldnt worry. i feel things have changed and here are the following reasons one he stopped calling me first and when i call i find out that he had time to call but decided not to. two his personality is different he seems more assholish like and three he doesnt tell me he loves as much like before.
in my mind things have changed and slowly were falling apart. i guess its because i cant open up myself to him im afraid to i dont wanna get hurt again not for the third time. i dont wanna open up my heart to him but at the same time i dont wanna lose him too. so right now im at a piont where i continue to keep myself gaurded or open up and risk my heart getting hurt again. i could be wrong maybe what im looking for in a guy is right in front of my face im just too blinded by pain from the past. if he is who he protrays to be i DONT wanna lose that. the sad part is if he is one of the good ones than im slowly pushing him away but if he's a lying cheating no good asshole than im screwed cause ive already fell in love with him and once things fall apart ill be back where i started a heartbroken mess!!
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MJAC wrote 663 Days Ago (neutral) 0Oh sweetie. I see this on this website all the time. But usually it's from women AFTER the relationship has ended. And usually these women all say, "I didn't know what I had at the time. I wish I had just taken the time to enjoy the relationship instead of worrying all the time and making him miserable."
So my advice to you is this. Enjoy the time you spend with him and when you feel like you are worrying too much, go for a run or go out with your friends. You can't control other peoples' actions and you can't always prevent the breakdown of a relationship. It takes two people to break up, but if you're already thinking that it's over...then it's a self-fulfilling prophecy. So be that fun girl that you were in the beginning of the relationship when you're with him. Take some deep breaths and....a CARDINAL rule that EVERY WOMAN SHOULD FOLLOW...don't call him first. Let him come to you. Guys love the chase and maybe he needs to chase you again to spark his personality so he becomes less "asshole-ish." : ) I'm not saying Don't Ever Call First, I'm saying that when you do reach out, make sure it's for a reason.
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