Not Bringing the Past Into New Relationships

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Not Bringing the Past Into New Relationships

752 days ago 7 comments Categories: The Present Tags:

Does anyone have a problem with this? I am trying really hard not to bring my past insecurities or past mistakes that my ex-boyfriends have made into this new relationship with F. But it's really hard. I can somtimes go back into my obsessive ways, not that I ever vent them to him - I usually just annoy friends with my ramblings.

I know that it's not just me. But I really really like F and I don't want to do anything to mess it up. But I guess I need to stop worrying about it and just enjoy the time that I spend with him.

But other than that - things are going well We see eachother frequently and everything seems to be going well. So, I guess we'll see where it goes.

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	MissKim wrote 595 Days Ago (neutral)
	0 How long has it been since your last boyfriend?

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	Anonymous wrote 750 Days Ago (neutral)
	0 It'll definitely make me feel better. I'm just kind of scared of the result. Like what if he doesn't want anything. I just always think of the worst possibilities. But I really am going to look into yoga. I've been wanting to get into it again for a while now and maybe just exercising will make me feel better.

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	journeywoman wrote 750 Days Ago (neutral)
	0 Yoga is awesome for stress. Maybe you should ask him. I think it would make you feel better.

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	IHeartDrDorian wrote 751 Days Ago (neutral)
	0 I really do think the fact that he hasn't brought up 'the relationship' yet is the reason WHY i freaked out. If I just really knew where we stood, then I'd feel better about everything. I'd be more rational. I mean we've been together for almost 3 months now, so I've kind of come to the whole conclusion that I'm going to have to bring it up soon - because if I don't then it's really just going to eat me alive. All of my friends agree (probably because I've brought up this issue over and over again and they are just tired of hearing about it). I want to get into yoga. I did it when I was in college but then I stopped - other things got into the way, but I really want to find a studio around here and just get into the routine of doing it.

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	MJAC wrote 751 Days Ago (neutral)
	0 So he hasn't brought up 'the relationship' yet? No wonder you're freaked out. I find that as I get older, I don't bring any of my past insecurities to relationships. I feel that everyone has their own baggage and all of my ex's f-d up in different ways. If I brought all of that into my new relationships, I would totally be psycho and worried and anxious all the time. This is a nice boy. He likes you. He isn't out to hurt you. You need to let yourself be happy. Do you do Yoga at all? That could help you center yourself. There are also breathing exercises and of course, venting on this board. You can totally go bat-shit crazy on this board and nobody will care...everyone will probably identify with you!

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