I've decided to go on a diet.  My goal is to lose approximately 170 pounds of heartache. This weight has been on for over a year and I am not being fair to myself by continuing to carry it around. It is only having a negative impact, therefore...its getting kicked to the curb!  My diet will look something like this...

-no obsessing over what happened in the past, or why it happened

-daily dose of positive self talk about the future

-no wondering what he is doing, where he is, or who he's with...the focus is on ME!

-meet new people

-try new things

-exercise to get rid of my emotions, and physically make myself feel better

-talk to friends, family, therapist, or even write on my blog/journal about current feelings b/c its ok to be sad

Just as any other diet, this will take dedication, and discipline.  But, I want to become a better person...  I want to learn from this.

No longer is this about HE, or WE.                                                   

its finally becoming about me.