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30.01.2010 (737 Days Ago)
I feel so stupid for even getting so wrapped up in this whole thing. I just don't understand why this always happens to me around this whole 3-month mark. I'm beginning to wonder if it was even a good idea to bring the whole conversation up, but I really can't take it back now.
But I just kind of feel like he completely led me on. He made me seem like he wanted me, but clearly he didn't. I just don't understand why I constantly get involved in these types of dead-end relationships. I have to wonder what is wrong with me and why I'm crying like an asshole right now, when I really didn't lose anything.
I guess, it's just better that I know now instead of letting it go on for another 3 months - but that doesn't make it hurt any less. I'm going over my friend's house today, and hopefully that'll help.
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blooms wrote 735 Days Ago (neutral) 0I'm so sorry to hear about your troubles. you know that you did the right thing and that you should have asked. If you didn't mention it I am sure it would have just been eating you up inside. As much as it sucks it is better to know the truth than to be clueless. It's too bad because it seems like you guys were having such a great time getting to know each other. You should not have had to ask, your friends are right. After three months he should know what he wants. I hope that things work out for you! I know they will, it just sucks right now!1 point
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MJAC wrote 736 Days Ago (neutral) 0It is better to know now. Even though it hurts. And it doesn't only happen to you! It happens to me all the time.And a lot of people. Don't feel stupid. It's not your fault he led you to believe that there was more to it than there was. But I am glad that you asked. What if it was 6 months from now, or a year?
Well maybe if you just lay low he will realize what he is missing. I have been going through a very hard time myself lately too. I am meeting tons of people, but none of them are made of any substance. So I will keep searching even though it makes me depressed. : (1 point
