ok here's the story me and this guy been talking for quite awhile now during the first few days early into the "getting to know eachother kinda thing" we confesed to eachother that we liked eachother more than just friends. shortly after we agreed to be just friends but we both knew the temptation would hard to resist. the problem is that he is supposably separated from his wife and on top of that he has two kids (two and four). so i guess that's a no no? i know this wrong and unethical and maybe i'll go to hell for this but what happens if only if he decides not to be with his wife anymore is there hope that me and him could be together in the future? i dont mind kids like for example i wouldnt mind helping her (nanny) but i dont wanna be a second mom to them. but i also know this he's gonna have to support those kids for life whether im in the picture or not. the truth is i like this guy a lot and aware of the troubles we have to work on, esp cause legally he's married and has two kids...yikes!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!  my mom in this whole thing is not too happy about it but if he was single and no kids regardless of his age my mom would be ok with it...weird huh?

now what?

please help i need advice fast!