Miss Kim- I'd say that yes, we are officially back together now :)

After the whole going to pick up his drunk butt a week ago, I thought long and hard about whether he was putting enough effort into things. I make my decisions by thinking about what is best for little man, and I put myself second. I will elaborate on that... Little man is extremely happy when W is around. I am happy when W is around. When things are great, things are REALLY great, and to be honest, things are only bad when I get into my moods and take everything out on W, or when I accuse him of things I know he isn't doing. So, after the drunken situation, I wasn't mad, but I was disappointed and I didn't say anything. I just decided to see how he acted... and he has been great. He still wants to go to the golf course every couple of day, which really doesn't bother me because I know he enjoys golfing. He hasn't been drunk since... he tells me that he maybe drinks 1 to 2 beers and that is all.

Last Saturday, he took me to watch Eclipse :) It was great having some time without the little man lol. Yesterday, he wanted to go get the tattoo he won, and he offered to use part of the tattoo on getting my um.... nipples pierced. I thought that was very nice of him :) We have argued twice, but it was nothing major. The first one was a simple misunderstanding about little mans birthday in 16 days, and the second one was about the rent. My old job said there was a good chance they would call me back, but that was over a week ago... so I'm trying for a job at the golf course. and if that doesn't work out, then I don't know what I'm going to do.

Anyways... I'm happy, little man is happy, and W tells me how happy he is everyday. I've been doing great at keeping my calm and not getting mad like I used to. When W does something that annoys me, like leaving his clothes in the floor or not rinsing his dishes, I calmly remind him instead of getting ill about it like I used to. and W is putting a lot of effort into things that he never did before, so I think that things are going quite well.

Thank you all for all your help and advice. It meant so much to me! I will still be around :)