I went out last night with another guy from that online dating site, and I had a really good time again. We're in the same profession, so we had a lot to talk about and he seemed really cool and I definitely got the feeling that he was into me (since he already wanted to make plans for this weekend).

Now, I'm normally not a fan of dating two guys at once. I'm more of a one-guy type of girl. However, I feel like these guys are both viable options for boyfriends. One is more reserved than the other - but they are both pretty good in their own ways. So, it does pose a slight problem. And I know, that since I've only gone on a very select amount of dates with each of them - but on both dates, we enjoyed ourselves so much that we spent like 4+ hours just talking (which I really good for a first date where you are just meeting the person). So I don't really know what to do.

Like what should I be looking for when I'm trying to decide which one is better? Because in the past, I have had the choice between two guys and I always without fail seem to go for the one that isn't the best option. So I'm really not in the mood to fall into that trap again. Maybe, I just need to ask each of them if they want a serious relationship - which I think that they both do - but that might help me weed out one over the other.

Any suggestions? lol I'm going out with the first guy tomorrow and I'm very excited to go :) but now this whole new other guy kind of complicates things.

And how long should I be dating them both at the same time? Is there like an amount of dates where it's just too much to be dating two people and I need to pick which one I like better?