I was searching the internet for books on relationships when i stumbled apon "getting past your breakup" by susan j. elliot.  I am only halfway through chapter two, but i can't seem to put it down!

The things she is saying, its like she is speaking directly to me and my situation.  When you break up with someone, you need to grieve.  But there are important steps you must take inorder to not repeat these mistakes in your next relationsihp.  I am starting to feel as if this break up is going to turn into something positive.  I thought i would never say that.  But i am S L O W L Y learning... who i am, what i deserve, what i want, and how to live!!!

xoxo marilyn

perhaps our hearts were broken in order to make room for something bigger and better in our futures